My friends have straight-up told me that I’ve become a better and 10x happier woman since meeting CH, and I am so excited to spend the rest of my life with him, it’s scary.I think this myth is insulting to both black women and white men, who if the media and certain bloggers are to be believed, can’t simply fall in love for the usual romantic reasons. I’m not less black because I’m in an IR relationship.As you order your drink you wonder, how will I find the person to spend forever with in here. Type up a profile, post a picture and start meeting people.Is this really better than meeting someone at a bar?We met at a bar, then talked for a few moments at few different events, he asked me on a date, we fell in love, I moved in with him, and then he asked me to marry him in the privacy of our home after about a year of dating. I think a lot of people assume that if a black woman marries a white man that she must have been terribly hurt by a black man.Millions of people throughout history and across the world have this exact same courtship story. However, I’ve noticed that the media and many black bloggers who both support and don’t support interracial relationships want to give my relationship a script that it simply does not have, so I wanted to spend the first day or our series dispelling three of those myths. For the record all of the black men I have dated have been lovely. I didn’t settle because I was desperate for a husband. Black men aren’t considered desperate for marriage when they marry white women.
You shouldn't be so vain to think that your whiteness is more desirable than anyones blackness.
Meeting someone online forces you to get to know each other before the physical attraction can play a part.
You will know each other better through the letters you will write then those first few awkward dates that come after meeting someone.
Please don’t get it twisted; CH is awesome, and I am deeply in love with him.
If you ask me who the best man I have ever known is, I will answer, CH. I have a lot in common, we have similar goals, and he is completely supportive of me.Online Dating news and tips, this site is particularly designed for the people who are looking to the best online dating sites and for the dating tips.